--- title: Be The First to Give description: They walk away mad with you, because they refuse to be the channel to harvest back what is supposed to come to them by divine law. --- by Bishop Jordan Blogs # Be The First to Give Jun 15, 2018 1:00:19 AM [Zoe Miniistries](https://blog.zoeministries.com/tag/zoe-ministries) - [mailto:?body=https://blog.zoeministries.com/be-the-first-to-give](mailto:?body=https://blog.zoeministries.com/be-the-first-to-give) - # Relationships are destroyed when others cannot give back to you the way the universe demands for them to give back. They walk away mad with you, because they refuse to be the channel to harvest back what is supposed to come to them by divine law. That is where you get envy, jealousy, strife, and stress, and people getting upset. So always know that in any relationship, be the first one to give. When you are the first one to give that means you are guaranteed a harvest out of the relationship.   With every person I do business with, I try to get their birthdays. Why do I do that? I want to remember them. I’ve created a system to remember people on his or her birthday and give something to them. It might just be a box of candy that cost $4.00. You should try this with your boss. That gift can generate a five percent or a ten percent increase in your raise. Other employees may not give anything to their boss; they are only trying to take from them.   ## Relationships are destroyed when others cannot give back to you the way the universe demands for them to give back. They walk away mad with you, because they refuse to be the channel to harvest back what is supposed to come to them by divine law. That is where you get envy, jealousy, strife, and stress, and people getting upset. So always know that in any relationship, be the first one to give. When you are the first one to give that means you are guaranteed a harvest out of the relationship.   With every person I do business with, I try to get their birthdays. Why do I do that? I want to remember them. I’ve created a system to remember people on his or her birthday and give something to them. It might just be a box of candy that cost $4.00. You should try this with your boss. That gift can generate a five percent or a ten percent increase in your raise. Other employees may not give anything to their boss; they are only trying to take from them.   Your weekly dose of prophetic wisdom and anointing awaits you. Join our LIVE Conference Call!   1) Call 515-604-9266 2) Go to startmeeting.com, and use the login: BishopJordan Lift your eyes upwardslightlyandimagineright now what you want. Write it down here  I  DESIRE [❮ Create Your Reality](https://blog.zoeministries.com/create-your-reality) [MORE THAN YOU CAN HANDLE ❯](https://blog.zoeministries.com/more-than-you-can-handle) [![](https://www.zoeministries.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/09/logo-footer.jpg)](https://www.zoeministries.com/) ##### Visit Our Prophecology University - [100 Sacred Notes on Developing the Prophet](https://www.prophecologyuniversity.com/courses/100-sacred-notes-on-developing-the-prophet) - [Finding Your Prophetic Voice](https://www.prophecologyuniversity.com/) - [Prophecy 101](https://www.prophecologyuniversity.com/courses/prophecy-101) [![](https://www.zoeministries.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/Prophecology-logo-V-maroon-300x107.png)](https://prophecology.com/) ##### Contact ##### Zoe Ministries ##### PO BOX 270 NEW YORK, NY 10008 TEL: 888-831-0434 ##### Zoe Ministries Church Address ##### 310 RIVERSIDE DR NEW YORK, NY 10025 - [Privacy Policy](https://www.zoeministries.com/privacy-policy/) - [Terms & Conditions](https://www.zoeministries.com/terms-and-conditions/) Zoe Ministries © 2021 - [powered by Zoe Ministries](https://kriesi.at) Zoe Ministries, Inc., Archbishop E. Bernard Jordan and Pastor Debra Jordan are not affiliated with MJM Ministries and/or Prophet Manasseh Jordan.